Police trip up chivalrous Redditor with “girlfriend trap” during a traffic stop
Picture this: You’re driving along with your girlfriend when flashing lights fill your mirror. You pull over, annoyed but not too worried about protecting your rights as a driver—it’s just a speeding ticket, right? Then the police officer drops a curveball: “If I were to find anything illegal in the car, would it belong to you or her?”
That’s exactly what happened to one Redditor in Texas. He shared his story, hoping for legal advice after the encounter left him rattled.
His first response? “There’s nothing illegal in the car.” But the officer wasn’t satisfied and repeated the question. Flustered, the Redditor finally said, “Mine, I guess.”
It ended with a speeding ticket and no search, but the driver couldn’t shake the feeling he might have made a critical mistake. Attorney Andrew Flusche weighed in on the Reddit post, explaining how this well-meaning response could have gone south quickly.
The officer’s trap

Driver rights are often challenged during traffic stops, especially when officers ask leading questions designed to trip you up. Flusche didn’t mince words: “You definitely answered in a very wrong way.” Why? Because anything illegal found in the car—whether you knew it was there or not—could now be pinned on you. It’s like leaving behind a fry in your car, Flusche explained. “You thought you picked them all up, but there’s still one left.”
Substitute fries with drugs a friend left behind weeks ago, and you’ve just unknowingly admitted guilt. Your statement is like a catch-all confession for anything the officer might find. Even though you’re innocent, your words can build the officer’s case against you.
Police often use general questions like this to gather evidence. By answering, you’re helping them connect dots that may not even exist.
Protecting your driver rights

Protecting your driver rights starts with knowing when to stay silent. So, what should you say? Flusche’s advice is clear: Invoke your Fifth Amendment rights. You don’t need to engage in hypotheticals or predict the future. The best response is simple: “I’m invoking my Fifth Amendment rights.”
This isn’t being combative—it’s defending yourself. You have no obligation to answer beyond providing basic identification like your driver’s license and registration. Anything else can be twisted to build a case against you, even when you’ve done nothing wrong.
Stay calm, stay quiet

Your driver rights are best protected by staying calm, polite, and silent. Traffic stops are designed to catch you off guard. Officers are trained to keep the conversation going, hoping you’ll slip up and give them something to work with. But you’re under no obligation to play along. By staying polite, calm, and silent, you reduce the chances of walking into a legal trap.
The next time you’re pulled over, remember this Redditor’s story. A polite answer might seem harmless, but silence is often the safest move. Protect yourself by knowing your rights—and using them.
You can see Flusche’s response to multiple similar Reddit posts in the video below: